If you think you’re all good on transgender politics because you immediately agreed to call Caitlyn Jenner a she, and you think "tranny" is a forbidden curse word, self-described “queer and pleasant danger" Kate Bornstein wants to make things a little bit more difficult.
So fasten your seatbelts, it's going to be a bumpy ride.
First off, the New York City author and gender theorist, like many in the transgender world, rejects the idea of hard and fast absolutes, especially when it comes to the community.
The pioneering blogger tackled the raging debate over what’s right and wrong, and whether just “he” or “she” cuts it, at the Gender Odyssey 2015 conference in Seattle, where more than thousand converged last week.
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One of several of Bornstein’s books lays out one of the more difficult concepts for those outside, and even in the trans community.