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PATRIOT TRAIN
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Being a parent is hard — hard on the wallet

Mass. is tough on working moms and dads. Some child care categories are the most expensive in U.S.

Get online
Since 2006, Boston Mamas has had a stranglehold on local parent networking, providing links to mother and father support groups throughout the state and information on kid-friendly activities on a daily basis.

www.bostonmamas.com

Other blogs Metro likes:

www.mommyniri.com - Raised in South Africa, Mommy Niri addresses everything under the sun, from the best oral care products for your kids to Dora's new makeover.

www.bostonfoodandwhine.com - The "Cool for Kids" section offers recommendations on where to dine with kids and how to make healthy foods at home that they will love.

www.ecobabyz.blogspot.com - A take on the the most eco-friendly, affordable and healthy products and services available to your baby.
 

Effects of the economic downturn can trickle down to the smallest among us — our children. Here in Massachusetts, astronomical day care and housing costs keep many parents on the margin.

Parents are often forced to use the resources at their disposal. These days, that includes a vast array of social networking that has emerged through advancements made online, as well as several maternity-driven retail outlets.

Dozens of mothers groups, fathers groups and family networking sites have popped up, some taking the sting out of the daily grind. Not to say that parenthood is a drag, but dealing with the daily rigors is often tough to do on one’s own.

Misery, as they say, loves company.


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Q&A with Isis Maternity President and CEO Johanna Myers McChesney

McChesney started Isis over six years ago, offering merchandise, services, classes and social networking to parents in the area. Prior to that she worked for many years in the health care industry, including policy research at the Harvard School of Public Health.

Q: How has the industry changed over the years?

A: The products that are available to help parents have babies and adjust to life with children have become much more robust. There are plenty of gimmicky, unnecessary things out there, but there are also genuinely helpful products.

On one hand that’s a challenge in a tough economy; there’s stuff out there you want to buy. On the other hand, compared to other things in life like mortgage and cars, these are luxuries that can make life easier for a parent and they seem to be quite worth it.

Another trend, even in a tough economy, you only have your first baby once. Whether you have your first baby in a great economy or your first baby in a terrible economy you still need to prioritize that life-changing event because it is so big.


Q: Has the economy affected the baby retail business?

A: Not meaningfully. When you have a baby you’re going to do what you need to do to do it right. We’ve tried to have more moderately priced items and moderately priced services.

Q: Isis is featured on Facebook and Twitter. There are many parent blogs and an emerging number of forums for advice and feedback. How important to parents is social networking, especially in a city like Boston?


A: Traditionally, young families had more of a support structure than they do today. Particularly in urban areas, in Boston, people are more likely to be separated from their families. They don’t have their mom or sister or sister-in-law law nearby to lend advice, lend products and so forth.

I think that’s been replaced by community, friends.

Q: Has anything at Isis or within the community become more popular as a result of the economy?


A: We run a lot of free classes, open to the public, and we try to offer more value because we know times are hard.

Our instructors do try to help people with low to no-cost enrichment ideas for the home - making shakers out of pasta and beans, making your own playdough. There’s plenty you can do to enrich your child without spending money.

We have found in the tough economy that applications into using [the Isis Maternity Fund for deals on services] is higher than it has been before.  


 

The cost of raising a kid in Boston

  1.  $15,895 - Average annual price of full-time infant care in Massachusetts, the highest figure in the country.
  2. 59.6 - The percentage of a median single-parent family's income that goes to child care, also the highest mark nationwide.  
  3. 15.6 - The percentage of a median two-parent family's income that goes to child care, second in the nation behind New York.
  4. $11,678 - The average annual price of full-time care for a 4-year-old in Massachusetts, again the most expensive in the country.
  5. $26,680 - The median family income for single parents in Massachusetts.
  6. $27,573 - Average annual price for two children in a child care center in Massachusetts, making it the least affordable state for single parents in such a situation.
Source: The National Association of Child Care Resource & Referral Agencies (NACCRRA)

 
 
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MMMpod
In the July MMMpod, Young Veins talk about breaking away from Panic! at the Disco, Keith Lockhart talks about Buckwheat Zydeco throwing the Boston Pops for a loop, Zooey Deschanel talks about how Roy Orbison inspired a She & Him song, Derek Miller of Sleigh Bells talks about how awesome Funkadelic is, and we talk about how awesome Jimmy Cliff is, who in turn talks about Sam Cooke and divine intervention. An explosive show for July! Oh yeah, and we also test your knowledge of America songs in the MMMPod medley.