Jennifer Aniston finds dating difficult,

The former Friends star — who is divorced from Brad Pitt and currently in a relationship with John Mayer — says finding a partner is a struggle, even without the pressures of being famous.

“I think it’s just hard to date. It’s not like we’re kids. We’re not dating,” she said. “I love dates — when you’re already with someone.”

However when she does commit, Aniston says loves to surprise her boyfriends with romantic gestures. She added to TV show Extra that, “Being surprised is good. I took a boyfriend to a hotel for his birthday and brought a massage table and gave him a massage.”

Unlike Aniston, her He’s Just Not That Into You co-star Drew Barrymore is currently single but insists she enjoys looking for love.