Jake Gyllenhaal is licking his wounds after his split from Reese Witherspoon by reportedly vacationing with pals at the Post Ranch Inn in Big Sur, Calif., the very spot he planned to propose to his ex, according to Popeater.

“It’s so sad watching his friends try to cheer him up in the infinity pool when you know it was Reese that was supposed to be next to him wearing a diamond ring,” a source says.