Jennifer Aniston has had plenty of experience with relationships, so she feels more than qualified to dish out some advice.

“Women complain that men don’t do enough, but it’s your own fault,” she said in the Australian edition of Harper’s Bazaar.

“You train your man to do nothing. You can’t blame someone for not knowing what his or her job should be if you don’t ask for it right off the bat.”

She also theorizes that women give too much in relationships because “it’s just instinctual as a woman to be the caretaker of your home.”