Jesse James is reportedly moving to Austin, Texas, so that his kids can be closer to Sandra Bullock, who calls the city home.

But the Oscar-winning actress’ friends aren’t thrilled about the idea, according to Popeater.

“Of all the towns in America, he had to pick the one place that Sandra loves?” a source says. “He knows that Austin is her home, the one place in the world where Sandy can be ‘Sandy’ rather than ‘Sandra Bullock, the movie star.’ When is this fool going to stop hurting her?”