Justin Long, take note. “Sexual love is secondary to me right now,” Drew Barrymore says in a new Parade magazine interview. “I’ve spent a lot of time in my life dedicating myself to love or the pursuit of love or the understanding of love. But for the last few years, my life just hasn't been about that for me.”

The twice-married star, 34, adds that she’s “stopped believing in happy endings,” usmagazine.com reports.

“I’ve started believing in good days,” she says. “At the end of my movie, there’s honesty. There’s truth. There’s peace. What tomorrow will bring is still in question. There is a joy that's earned by failure or triumph. All those things add up to teach us, if we are open to it.”