Apparently there’s one person who can get away with making fun of Madonna to her face: Ex-husband Sean Penn.

The two ran into each other at an Oscars after-party, where Madonna commended Penn on his best actor win for Milk earlier in the evening, according to Gatecrasher.

“Thanks,” Penn said, before gesturing to Madonna’s date, 22-year-old Brazilian model Jesus Luz, and adding, “Another kid already?”