In her first interview since separating from her husband Jon in June, reality TV star Kate Gosselin says she is hurt by her ex’s recent flings, usmagazine.com reports.

Asked about Jon’s girlfriend Hailey Glassman, Gosselin told Meredith Vieira on Monday’s Today show, “I was shocked, but those things ... to be very honest, that’s his life and they don’t affect me directly at this point.

“It is hurtful. It’s very hurtful,” she went on. “To be very honest, the most hurtful part is when his decisions directly affect our children. That’s the hardest part for me.”

She added: “I go back very often to our vow renewal in Hawaii. I think very often of it, and in that moment, I meant those vows. And there was no option for us other than to be together. And so much has changed.”